No words

There really are no words for someone that is narcissistic.

Someone that wants to control every moment of your life.
Control who your friends are.
Control where you live or what you drive.
Even manipulate you into thinking that you are the bad guy for finally standing up for yourself and taking control of your life.

The narcissist coerces you into doing things for them because they know they can make you feel bad or manipulate you into not doing something for yourself because it takes time away from them. 

When you finally take back control of your life and you stand up for yourself, they call you the bully and the bad guy. They blame everything on you. Tell people that you have caused all the trouble and anxiety in their lives. When you call them out on their manipulation, they cry victim and tell everyone that you are lying and making up stories on how you treated them. Making you look like the evil one and them the saint. When it is just the opposite, you are the one that hasn't done anything wrong and they are spewing lie after lie about you. 

The narcissist will destroy your character.
They will tell everyone that you are the cause of all their problems.
They will try to get people to distance themselves from you because of what they are telling them you did to them.
If you don't respond to them right away they become angry. 
They threaten you with abandonment and disownment.
Tell you not to contact them or anyone close to them.
Those closest to them will believe them before even considering your side of the story. 
They block you on social media outlets and get others to do the same.